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Well of COURSE I honed in on this statement amidst the 98 other truthbombs in this piece: “This is only dangerous for boys and men in that it makes them also ‘unfit for the lot they are cast’ in a world that wants them to disassociate from their emotions so that they can dominate everything and everyone around them.” EXACTLY. During my Men’s Health days I was obsessed with the life-expectancy gap (six years, currently) between men and women. So our reward for “dominance” is early death? No thank you. One gender difference: Women are (statistically) much better at managing and maintaining their social lives, an important health factor. Less lonely = more living. So novels are actually a kind of longevity pill that women are smart enough to take, and men aren’t. C’mon guys! Read those dangerous books! Close the gap!

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See, nobody wins in the patriarchy! Early death, having to wear pants in summer instead of sundresses, missing out on romance novels... Come join us, guys!

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Who says I can’t wear a sundress?

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The patriarchy. But you should do it!

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